In this life, if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that those who’ve experienced deep pain or loss often love more fiercely than all. 

After nearly losing her husband to sepsis two years ago— and then proceeding to lose three precious babies to miscarriage—Roxann Thomas has never been the same again. Seeing her spouse almost die— and then experiencing the most excruciating loss of three consecutive pregnancies— veritably changed her life. 

Hearing from the doctor, “there is no heartbeat,” are words no expectant mother is ever prepared to hear. But through experiencing this pain, Roxann has become more compassionate towards those walking this same road of grief. She supports other women who also mourn their babies, while providing a shoulder to cry on to whoever needs it.

You see, her profound sadness has altered her outlook on life— and she doesn’t let a day go to waste without showing love to those who mean the most to her.

You can see it in the way she wraps her arms around her husband, tightly and purposefully. 

Knowing he almost passed away, every touch, every embrace is a miracle— and her husband is HER miracle.

How she holds her daughter with her entire being, breathing her in, soaking in each moment with unfathomable gratitude. 

Knowing that every heartbeat, every life is a miracle— and her daughter is HER miracle.

Sometimes it takes tragedy to remind us of what—and who—truly matters. And seeing this family— with all their love, devotion and affection for each other— warmed my soul, knowing how deeply they cherish and appreciate each other, fiercely forever. (11.12.19)